Why Do Some People Die Young?

by AngelicView

When I was putting together my post, “Angelic Intervention“, I could hear some of my readers shouting, “If Angels or Guides save some people’s lives, why did no one save my (insert beloved person here’s) life”?

Even though this can be a very touchy subject, I want to discuss it with you today. As always, take what resonates with you and leave the rest.

Let’s chat a moment about death

If you’ve read the NDE stories on this site or elsewhere, you know that the death of the body is not the end of a person. That person still exists, but in another dimension which we cannot see.

They are incredibly happy there. They have a life and friends and lovers and they are filled with peace and wholeness at all times.

The only people that the death of the physical body hurts is the people who are still in physical bodies. We know that we won’t see that person again (probably) for the rest of our physical lives. We know we will miss them.

But once our physical body dies, then we will pass into the other dimension, too, and we will be together again.

What I want to impart to you here, is that death is not a bad thing, like we think it to be. It’s the most wonderful thing that could happen for the person it is happening to!

Let’s start at the beginning

The beginning that I’m talking about starts before we come to this life on Earth. We decide to come here. We make out a plan for our life. We decide who our Spirit Guides will be. We decide who our parents will be. We decide what our challenges and goals will be throughout our life. And we also decide when (and how) our death will be.

Once we, as individuals, come up with a plan for our life, we go to a sort of “review board” where there are several beings who are more advanced than we are and we talk it all over. They help us to see more clearly and work out more details. We may even be directed to aΒ counselor to help us make these important decisions before incarnating.

So why would we choose to die young?

Remember what we said earlier about how death is not a bad thing? Well, when we’re “upstairs” planning out our lives and our deaths, we don’t see that death as such a huge loss as we do here.

We may have accomplished all of our goals by that age that we had set out to accomplish. We may have experienced all the experiences we wanted to have in this incarnation.

It may be that by passing over, it was a life-lesson – a goal – for you (the one who was left behind), to experience the death of a loved one. In other words, perhaps they made that sacrifice just so that you could have that experience.

Another reason why someone might choose to die young is because they are to do a special job on the other side of the veil. Take Matthew Ward, for example. He lived here in the physical until he was a teenager and then died in an accident. After crossing over he began communicating with his mother messages for humanity. And so he was here for a time to develop this relationship with his mother so that she would recognize him as the messenger and be open to receiving his messages and spreading them far and wide.

What about a newborn baby dying?

That is one that can be difficult to understand for a lot of people. But the answers are just about the same as above.

The baby may have passed away so that the parent could have that experience (which was their ((the parent’s)) choice). Or it may have died because that’s all the soul wanted to experience – being a baby and then dying. As strange as it may sound, this may really be all he or she wanted to experience.

Another reason why a baby dies is because they have, well, “chickened out”. They came here and they just couldn’t accept being in 3D Earth. Their spirit was so broken by being in this experience that they just couldn’t make it. This has nothing to do with the parents! It has to do with the experience itself or the life-plan chosen. Being in 3D is not an easy thing to do considering where you are coming from.

What about abortion or still-birth?

Great question! (Thanks!)

Often, there is notΒ a soul attached to the aborted baby or the still-born baby. In other words, a soul never inhabited that body. Sometimes a soul has planned to come to that body but then decided not to – for whatever reason.

A soul comes into the baby’s body usually around the time of birth. If they come in too early they find the boredom of being in a womb to be mind-numbingly unbearable. And so, at that point, they usually exit. They can exit and reenter the body until the body is born. Then they pretty much stay in the body (but not always). And so many times an aborted fetus was never inhabited by a soul.

So why do some people get “saved” by Angels then?

There are two reasons that I know of that someone’s life would be saved by someone from another dimension.

The first one is that something happened that wasn’t in that person’s life-plan and so the person’s life was saved to be able to complete their plan. You see, there are people working tirelessly in other dimensions that are ensuring that the plan we set out to accomplish in this life gets done! Always, every day. We just don’t know it – we are not aware of it.

And so let’s say that the other-dimensional person (angel or spirit guide) saw an accident coming that was not meant to happen, and I was going to die in that accident. My life might be spared in that case because it was not in my life-plan. It wasn’t my time to die.

The other reason Angels or Other-Dimensionals may seem to “save” us is because we were meant to have that experience. Perhaps it was a wake-up call for us. Maybe it was the first time we ever thought of beings in another realm and so it spurred us to look into it further and it might change our lives (just as planned).

Be assured that nothing happens by coincidence and everything happens for a reason.

67 thoughts on “Why Do Some People Die Young?

  1. than what is the point of praying to god to protect our loved ones if we as individuals have already planned out everything even before we were born in this world?

    • That is a very good question, Tanmayee. The truth is that prayer may affect the situation in some ways. For one thing, even though we have made a plan for our lives, that plan can be tweaked or changed if needed. Secondly, calling of God or Angels can help you and the one who is dying. Even though death is a difficult thing for the people who are left here, our Angels and Guides and God can help us get through it in less time and to learn the lessons we need to learn, if we ask for guidance. The lessons come harder when we resist the process and when we don’t listen to or follow our guidance.

      Life is just like a play, and we are all actors and actresses in it. Once the curtain closes on your part of the play, you will be able to go home and be with those people you loved when you and they were here.

        • Hi Kat! No, not according to NDE research. “God” or Creator (or whatever you want to call… him/her/it) gave us free will. And so that includes the free will to create our own lives – our own experience here in Earth.

          • Thank you :’) that gives me some comfort, because I’ve been stressing out over things so much! πŸ˜₯ like for example i’m still a virgin & i don’t know if i can wait till marriage to have sex. I will try but if the waiting for a partner goes on too long it might get very hard to wait.

      • Hi I posted on this before a long time ago but I’m just curious is it possible that if someone dies at a young age before they were meant to due to being badly hurt by antidepressant medication. Would god give them a second chance at life, let them be reborn?/reincarnate? I’m hoping this will happen to me because my life did not go the way it was meant to go & I did not get to experience certain things that I wanted to experience like falling in love, making love, getting married etc having children & I blame it on the medication. They have done so much damage to me & I’m now in so much pain I can’t live any more. I feel like a huge part of me has died already. It’s so horrible. I really hope reincarnation happens. πŸ™πŸ‘Ό

  2. Having experienced a great deal of bereavement in order to lead me to my soul purpose, I would say that this aligns with my understanding. Thank you πŸ™‚

  3. HI, Most everything stated here confirms what I currently hold to be truth. One possible
    difference is that I thought the soul entered right at conception. Thanks for sharing!

  4. What about multiverse and reality shifts? I think in timeless realm of afterworld it hardly matters if we live upto 40 yrs or 80yrs.jack london and elvis presley live upto around 40 yrs but what terrific and quantity of life,more than 200yrs of an ordinary person’s life.

  5. Thank you for sharing this! Just Saturday, my best friend (we’re 16) lost her 18 year old brother in a tragic accident, which left us both heartbroken. After reading this, it’s lifted up my spirits about where he is! I don’t feel as sad anymore. In fact, I feel comforted.

    • Thanks for the comment Sydney. Wow – so hard. Death is such a hard thing for people. I don’t know if you’ve read a lot of Near-Death Experience stories, but this might be a good time to delve into them. They are so SO uplifting about where our loved ones go.

  6. Hi.
    My boyfriend passed away by suicide. I have always been a believer that when it’s your time to go, it’s your time. I could accept that.
    But when he has taken his own life it’s hard to accept because it wasn’t meant to be his time to go home.
    Where does suicide fit into life plans?

    • I’m so sorry to hear about that Danni. 😦

      According to NDE research, when someone commits suicide then that changes the life plans of all the people around them. Some of the people who were in their lives will just have to have their life plans “tweaked” in order to get the same advantages out of their life and others’ will not be able to accomplish their life missions because of that suicide. I think it’s probably more rare that a life mission cannot be accomplished at all, though, and much more common that the life plan just has to be changed.

  7. Dear Angelic View. I have a question for You and hope You can help me here, please…

    4 years ago I was 34 years old and met a girl who was 18 years old, yes 16 years younger ! We never went out on a date, it just happened in a weird way – we both clicked and off we went, started living together.
    I proposed in summer 2013 ( she was the one who asked me to do that and I wanted it anyway :). We were supposed to get married last August 2014, but in November 2013 her health started to get shaky – vomiting for no reason, she became easily irritated, her vision became weak etc, visited about 5 different doctors. To make the story short – last May she got diagnosed with GlioBlastoma stage 4 or 5. The tumor was right on Brain Stem and doctor said it was the size of a fist and must have been growing for 3 to 4 years there – which is very unusual for GlioBlastoma. They tend to grow really fast. so surgery did not really help and she never made it out of the ICU. Surgery was performed on May 27th and she died on June 20th at 6:05am. I laid her to rest on June 26th. She will always be 22 years old.
    The day before for God knows what reason I managed to organize a wedding right at her bedside in the ICU. Her parents said the YES word on her behalf and a priest did his things right there while she was in deep coma. Literally after the priest was done with all his church stuff and she had a ring on her finger – her pulse went up from 155 beats per minute to 166.
    My question is as follows: why did she live for so long with sooooo little symptoms ? And why would she ever choose a guy who is 16 years older ? We both liked the same things – from music to culture to spicy foods, movies etc etc. Had she chosen me before she was born ? Did she choose me knowing I would be the one with her till the very end ?
    Also crazy thing is she was never interested in material things, no makeup ever, no shopping, money did not mean anything to her, she liked animals more than people πŸ™‚ Some of my friends have said they thought she was not from this world or did not really belong here…….
    Appreciate Your answer when You have the time to do so ! Thank You.
    Best regards

    • First of all, I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. I know it leaves a hole in your life, which over time a person learns to fill back up. But it does take time and it’s not fun.

      I think you’re right on about the reason you and she came into each other’s lives. When we incarnate here – even though we can’t SEE the soul or spirit of people, we do sense it. You two knew each other before incarnation, you planned to be in each other’s lives here, and you recognized each other when you got to the point in your lives when you were meant to meet up. Kudos to you, for recognizing that πŸ™‚

      • Hey, Angelic View !
        First things first – thank You very much for a quick response ! I do appreciate it πŸ™‚
        I want to be with her again in next life, hope it happens πŸ™‚ Is that even possible ? What do I have to do to make it happen ? Or is it soul that takes care of it ? Have heard all people in this life that I know are the same ones I had known in my previous life and very likely to be around me in the next one.
        P.S. Very important question that has been bothering me – population is increasing every year – where do the “NEW” souls come from ? Say, 1000 years ago there were 300 million people and thus the same number of souls. Now it is 7 billion – how and where the new souls come from ?
        Thank You once again.
        Best regards

        • Hi Kaspars! Well, we are talking on my favorite subject here πŸ™‚

          Yes, you absolutely can reincarnate with her again, if you want. You will also see her once again and be together on the other side of the veil once your 3D body dies. Don’t worry about beginning a new relationship with a new woman here on Earth, though! There is no jealousy in the unconditional love environment we all come from. You have probably had many wives (and husbands, too!) in various incarnations and we are all happy and together in the afterlife. We all know and love millions upon millions of souls on the other side – and we can keep them all straight! πŸ˜‰

          A lot of people do ask the question about where “new” souls come from. This is based on NDE research: There are never any “new” souls. We were all made or generated at the same time. One thing you have to remember is that some of these souls are un-incarnated. Some souls never want to incarnate into 3D or physical life. Some souls incarnate elsewhere in the universe(s). Yes, there are people walking many planets, in many different densities. So, for example, you might decide next to incarnate in 5th density on a planet that is in another galaxy! And one soul from that galaxy might decide to incarnate here on Earth in their next life.

          • Angelic View – that is some mind bending and twisting stuff…….. πŸ™‚
            What you are saying is there may be 100 billion souls who have been here / there / everywhere since the very beginning ? Just that some of them have always remained un-incarnated ? Or are newborn babies an altered copy of a soul that has had many so called 3D lives ?
            I suppose I had a very brief time with my loving girlfriend on this planet ( I need more of her….) so it is very likely I will want to reincarnate to whatever planet and / or density she may choose !! πŸ™‚
            I suppose if there are answers to the questions I feel bound to ask after her passing – and there are sooooo many these days – the only way could be meditation, practicing a controlled OBE etc. ?! Not sure, have been reading loads of material, from Sadhguru to Michael Newton, from John Roger to Sylvia Brown etc.
            BTW – thank You for having set up this website and giving someone like me an opportunity to ask questions and also have them answered !!!! Awesome !
            Best regards

            • You’re welcome and it’s a pleasure to talk to you πŸ™‚ I think it’s really sweet of you to want to go wherever she goes.

              I think you’re on the right path with all that reading. If you enjoy reading NDE stories, then go to the lower right of AngelicView and click on NDE or OBE/STE to see some fantastic stories and loads of information πŸ™‚

  8. This is one circumstance that really bothers me, and I can’t seem to pacify my doubts. I think a lot of what you say is plausible and makes sense. However, if we choose our parents, path and death before we incarnate, how does a child who is abused by his parents/caregivers and dies as a result of the abuse, be a path that soul chooses? For example, the little boy, Ethan Stacey, who died from horrific abuse inflicted on him by his mother and her boyfriend.

    • That is such a hard question. I am only going to be able to take an educated guess on it.

      I think that the soul who chose to incarnate as the child who is abused (and possibly even ends up dying without ever knowing a life where they are not abused) is a very brave soul that has volunteered to come to help out the person who is the abuser. For whatever reason, the abuser needs to learn a lesson or balance karma or just plain wants to experience BEING an abuser.

      Definitely, though, from a 3D life standpoint, it’s hard for us to understand.

  9. Although I have only been a recent follower (couple of years) of angelic view, I have enjoyed it immensely and many of the posts have resonated with me in such profound ways. My thoughts concerning the above include the possibility
    of the younger incarnating soul being the one who needs to balance karma and
    the older abusive soul agreed to play (however reluctantly) that role.

  10. My 16 year old daughters throat closed on Sept 21 2015 and she died. When she was 13 years old she told her big sister that she would never be 16. The medical examiner couldn’t find a reason for her death (her body was healthy). The suffocated right in front of me and her younger 12 yr old sister. She was born Aug 2, 1999, but she wasn’t suppose to born until end of Sept 1999. How could she have known she’d die so early? Why in front of me and her younger sister? Why would God allow her to suffocate?

    • Wow, what a terribly traumatic thing for you all to go through. I am so sorry about that. It must have been awful for you and her younger sister.

      Sometimes people just know when they’re going to die. It’s a phenomenon that isn’t fully understood yet through our perspective. My daughter (who is 16) has always told me that she is going to die at the age of 29. I keep asking her over and over again why she thinks that – and he answer is that she just knows. I hope she is wrong, but she may be right. I guess I’ll see when she’s 29.

      It’s hard to say why it happened in front of you and her younger sister, as I don’t know your family dynamics. Perhaps if she had been alone when it happened you would have taken it much worse, or you would have been hard on yourself for not being there or thinking you could have prevented it – when you couldn’t.

      Why would God let her suffocate? Well, nearly all forms of dying look to be more difficult (usually) from our perspective than they actually are for the person who is in the throws of death. Many times the spirit actually leaves the body and watches the suffering from above rather than experiencing it inside the body while it’s happening.

      Remember this, the passing of your daughter probably only took a few minutes – and now she is so free, and so happy, and in such a state of ecstatic love! We should all be so lucky to be living the kind of life she is now living! And, of course, we all will someday. I look forward to when it’s my time and I hope my family and friends won’t be too devastated when it does happen. I know it’s hard to go on after someone so close to you passes over (especially your own child). But does it bring some comfort to you that there IS a reason for everything that happens – nothing is by chance – and that she is now in such a better place than this Earth? I hope so!

      Sending you Cyber-Hugs ❀

  11. As I was reading the comments posted, it clicked me was some of them know that they are going to die. I lost my husband in September 2015 in a road accident. I was not with him, had come for work out of country in august. Why he had to die when I was nothinking there, leaving me and my 3 yr old daughter whomever he loved the most. We had decided to settle down in foreign lands. But it left me a hole iny life and feeling guilty of not being with him the nearing days of his death.why we the souls not able to recognise nearing stage of death of our loved ones.

  12. Hi AngelicView,
    Im wondering if you have any insight into what people often call “Exit Points” ?
    Do you offer readings as well?

    • Thanks for the question tmoney! I do not offer any readings, I only offer the tid-bits of information that comes from my research and perhaps a little intuition thrown in. πŸ˜‰

      I do believe in Exit Points. I think that some people might plan just one Exit Point while others might plan several, so that they can get out of here either, a) as soon as their job here is done, or, b) in case they can’t handle their life here – if they’ve lost all hope of them being able to do the job they came here to do or learn the things they wanted to learn.

      • Thanks for the response. Im looking for a reading of sorts. Trying to figure out why im still here and how long i have to stay.
        I’m wondering if there are people here who are just here for the Ascension process and they dont have to stay here after it. Especially those people who identify as starseeds and have never felt human for a day in their lives- then having to go through the ascension process and be even more of a freak and feel even more different, isolated, lonely. Is it possible that a soul may have planned to stay here a long time, but can instead opt out?

  13. Hello, thanks for the article πŸ™‚
    I just wanted to say, what is your base for saying this :

    “A soul comes into the baby’s body usually around the time of birth. If they come in too early they find the boredom of being in a womb to be mind-numbingly unbearable. And so, at that point, they usually exit. They can exit and reenter the body until the body is born. Then they pretty much stay in the body (but not always). And so many times an aborted fetus was never inhabited by a soul.”

    I can understand that a foetus doesn’t a soul yet. But a baby, when he/she have like 5 months is already alive ! For examples, babies who make their mother’s belly move with their feet (how cute!). When I was a baby in my mother’s womb, one day a song wich apparently I didn’t liked played (in a party), and I started moving, like I was protesting that I didn’t liked the song. Also my mother had a foetus she lost after 3 months, I really hope he/she is on heaven now. I really think the soul came more early than you think. Please answer my question ^^

    • Great question! I get the answer from my research of NDE’s. Over the years I’ve read thousands. Some people who are psychic have also said this – but the psychics I listen to are the ones who got their abilities after having had an NDE.

      Remember, if the spirit is around the mother until birth and can go in and out of the baby’s body at will, then the spirit might cause the baby to kick. But movement in and of itself does not necessarily mean that there is a spirit inside the body. Through NDE research, I have learned that the human being is an “animal” and has the ability to move, and even talk, when the spirit is not inhabiting it.

      Take for example the person who’s NDE was caused by a fire. The human body is on fire and it’s screaming in pain and thrashing around. But the spirit is above, watching the whole thing!

      • Hello again ! sorry, I couldn’t respond sooner ^^
        Oh okay, so that’s the reason some children have memory of when they were in their mother’s womb !
        Sorry if I ask too much questions, but what about abortment then, if the spirit is around the mother ? I know there are women who had ndes when they were aborting and they were fine, positive ndes. But I also read the nde of Gloria Polo, wich is a pretty known nde. This nde is completely different from the others I’ve read. It is also said that abortment is an horrible murder, and the woman saw her soul being formed right at the moment she became a little foetus (wich suprised me cause all others ndes said that we existed since a very long time before we’re born. I don’t know what to think about it.

        And also another question (sorry ahah ^^), if the human being is an “animal”, does he have a soul too ? can he think and have emotions like any other human being who has his/her soul ? Does he goes to spiritual realms with us ? Can a person lose/sell his/her soul and still be alive as an “animal” ?

        • Hahaha! I see I inspired more questions than provided answers! That’s okay, though. I can’t tell you that I know all the answers, for sure. I have put together some theories based on what people who have had NDE’s say, and I can share them with you.

          There is a whole article on NDE’s and abortions (and what we’ve learned about abortion based on NDE study). Let me grab that link for you: https://angelicview.wordpress.com/2015/02/22/what-does-the-nde-say-about-abortion/

          Now, about the human being. Yes, I think there is a soul in that human that is separate from our spirits that come into the body, that also has emotions, likes, and dislikes. There are some fantastic cases of SOBE’s (Spontaneous Out of Body Experiences) where the human body keeps on with life and keeps interacting with others, or keeps driving the car, while the soul slips out of the body! If you go to the search bar on AngelicView and type in SOBE, you’ll probably run across some of them.

          I don’t know if a body can lose it’s spirit soul and just run along with the human soul. Dolores Cannon says “yes”. She was a famous regressive hypnotist. Many people say, though, that all available bodies are used by spirits because there are only so many bodies and there are many spirits who want to be here.

          • Okay, I read the abortions article (I really liked the nde with the little star)
            But, if there is two soul in our body, that means we’re two persons in our head ? So when we’ll be dead, we will be two separate person and we will talk with ourselves ? I heard that animals have a soul but not a spirit like us (and I’ve read ndes with animals too). So I guess that means the reason why humans are different from animals, is because we have a spirit in addition to our soul… lol really weird ^^
            And also, do you think that our “animal soul” can be in hell while “spirit soul” is in heaven ? (for example)

            • And also, about that hypnologist, does she precise if the body can lose the soul only if the animal soul agree with it, or can it be without warning ?

            • Well, I don’t really believe in “hell”. To tell you the truth, I’m not really sure I know the answers to your questions here. They are really good questions but I have not found any reference to where the bodily soul goes after the body dies. Just that it exists.

                • I guess this bodily soul just go with the spirit soul at some point, and unificate with it (that’s the Trinity, Body, Soul, Spirit ^^)

  14. my brother died of train accident at the age of 38 on 19th june 2016. I know everyone has to die at this early age and why should he die of a brutal train accident. leaving behind the old parents to cry why did god take him first

  15. Good evening I’m a grade 11 student from the Philippines, I’d like to know the name/s of the person who made all of these. I’m going to include it for my research about death, if that’s okay? Thank you.

    • You’d like to know the name of the person who made all of what? The article was written by me and there are links to the original accounts of where I got the information from. πŸ™‚

  16. Hi angelicview i wanna talk to you about my brother im 19 years old and my brother was 21 years old he passed away last week..his death was big surprise for me and for our family too because he is the one in our family which has veey accurate future plan for his life..his was studying in his favorite College he had decided all what he wanted in life,in other word his life was going to be the best amongst all of us…but 2 months earlier he met with an accident and then he passed away last week…the irony is that i couldn’t met him after his accident until he died..he always wanted to see me bt i lost him before seein him…all i wanted to know why he died,is there any hidden purpose in it or y god couldn’t helped him fighting his battle for life….We never imagined what happened to my brother, plz assist me plz

    • I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It must be terribly devastating for your family.

      The truth is that we really don’t know while in this life the reasons why a person takes an early out. Most times I think we have to wait until after our life is over for the full picture to come in to view. A few of the reasons, though, are stated in this article.

      Just know that he wasn’t alone when he died – there are always others there to help us through. And know that there is, in fact, a reason.

      All my love to you and your family.

  17. Can we ever now where my husband has gone?? Can we meet him till we are alive to know if he is happy without us, as we are in grief here because his sudden demise has left whole family with a hole. A father and mother cant live their rest of the life without their son, A wife cant accept her husband is not going to come back ever, a 12 year old son cant understand where his father has gone suddenly without any ailment or reason. Reason is just a cardiac arrest and doctors told us he is no more with us. Although they did CPR for 90 Min and he revived one in the middle but his condition couldn’t be stable to shift him to another big heart hospital. On 3rd May 2017 I lost my husband suddenly without any reason without any warning

    • I am so sorry to hear this news, Mrs. Sang. 😦 My advice would be to keep reading these NDE’s to know where he went and that he is still with you. ❀

  18. My father lived until age 92 and he died recently. He didn’t believe in life after death. I’m wondering when he did succumb and his spirit left his body did he immediately see close friends and relatives on the other side to welcome him? I’m wondering what he was thinking when he realized he was wrong. Most of all I want to know that he is in a better place and there is a place for him to enjoy himself and be happy. He was such a good solid soul in this world.

  19. It’s never easy hearing much less seeing someone you love (friend or family member) die, no matter the circumstances; I should know, because I, too was in the position of losing several people close to me. Perhaps the most tragic, however, came in June of 2001; one afternoon (June 27 of that year, specifically), I had returned home from running errands, when suddenly, the phone rang, and I received the news that a one-time friend of mine I had going to school and that I had lost touch with about a year, maybe 18 months prior, suffered fatal injuries in an accident returning home from a rodeo. When I hung up about 15 minutes or so later, I broke down sobbing, knowing that while her body had died, her spirit had flown away as well. The day of Stevie’s (The deceased friend in question) funeral, which was two days later (June 29), I barely had the strength to get out of bed and get ready, as I had been so weak from crying and had to stumble out the door around 9:40 that morning for the funeral, which was held at the cemetery, which was but a mile away. During the funeral, there were times where all I wanted to do was cry, and while I tried to stifle the tears time after time, a warm and angelic voice (probably Stevie’s) began speaking to me saying “Eric, I know you miss me, and I know you feel bad for not being able to say goodbye to me before I flew away, and more importantly, I know that on the outside, you want to prove that you’re brave, but if you need to cry, don’t hold it back; if it was the other way around, I know you wouldn’t want me to hold my tears back. You would want me to cry, and I’d want you to do the same thing; it’s okay now.” With that, I just lost it and fell to my knees with tears running down my cheeks; the girl who was standing with me (not naming names, BTW) (who stopped and gave me a ride to and from the service) wrapped her arms around me as we both fell to our knees with tears in our eyes. It was probably *the* saddest moment in my life, knowing that the one true Earthly angel that I had stumbled across about 6 1/2 years earlier (we met in fourth grade, BTW) was now an angel in Heaven, and would continue to watch over me (and everyone else she knew and whose lives she had touched) for as long as I live.

  20. My boyfriend of 5.5 years recently passed away. I miss him very much. He was in such pain and now he is not. He had a reason to go when he did because he has done what he was suppose to do in this life time.

    • The important thing, as you mentioned, is that his physical, mental, emotional, and any other suffering he endured has ended, as will all of our sufferings when our time has come. Another important thing to remember is that, as I mentioned in my comments regarding my best friend, your boyfriend is now, and will forever be, the angel who stood by your side on Earth and more importantly, watches over you until the day you join him in Heaven.

  21. Hello,
    I just found this site as I was contemplating why some die so young. I study a lot and understand the contracts we make before our Earthly journeys but wonder about animals.
    My closest friends just lost a 3 month old donkey named Snowflake and we are all heartbroken. Little Snowy was adorable and would run to us like a dog when we’d pull up the driveway.
    I won’t go into details but for animal lovers the loss of a pet can be just as hard as a human child. Especially when they are young.
    Do you feel that their souls go through the same sort of decisions that human souls do prior to coming here?

    • Hi Lisa, and welcome to AngelicView. I’m sorry to hear about the sweet baby donkey. 😦 I know our furry babies are just like our children.

      This is what I have come to understand about animals… animals do have a soul, according to my research, but they have more of a “group soul” as opposed to an individual soul – like humans. But the more a certain piece of that animal group soul incarnates, is loved by humans, and begins thinking like a human, the more individualized that soul gets and can eventually become something else – like a monkey, for example. Then the more that monkey incarnates, the more individualized that soul gets. Eventually, that animal might become a human. It’s all about soul evolution.

  22. Dear AngelicView
    Thanks for your post. After suffering a personal loss a few months back, I have been reading about NDEs, angels, spirit guides, synchronicity and so on. I have even experienced missing object phenomenon, digital synchronicity, one lucid dream with the one I lost and an unusual bird enter my home at the moment I was telling my lost loved one to show the sign of his presence. However, one question that always comes to my mind is if we planned our lives to have certain experiences and then our memories of heaven were erased so we could start our lives here on Earth and do/experience whatever we wished for then why God is permitting us to know this very fact. The fact that our memories are erased and we are completely oblivious to the reality of our lives here and hereafter. If we come to know that our physical lives are only stage performance and much lesser than our actual grand existence in the form of soul, then how shall we truly experience the Earthly things like grief, fear of death of a dear one, disease, failure in life, mental pain etc. If somehow we really come to KNOW that life, death, suffering are just for the sake of experience then would we not become causal about these things and come to a point where we will not actually be able to experience these things in their true essence? Wouldn’t it jeopardize our aim?

    • Hi Aleeza! Thank you for your comment and question. I think that most people don’t know this information. And if you do learn this information through an NDE experience yourself or through study of such experiences I think that it’s because you were meant to – you were guided here.

      • Thanks AngelicView. I too think this might be one reason or may be the time has come that God now wants to close the gap and thin out the veil. Probably there’s going to be a major shift in human consciousness as has been prophesied by some of the spiritual sects too. I hope it is so. Physical life isn’t that easy.

  23. Dear AngelicView, I have read all the above comments and tried to find an answer to the questions that have been haunting me for the past 2 months and really trying to understand why the things that happened to me is so hard to accept. My husband and I were living the perfect couple life. We knew each other for nearly 15 years and he was such a jolly, charismatic and extrovert person. Wherever we went, he was the one doing all the talking and no one could resist to his charm. I was so proud to be his wife. At first we were the best of friends, we really had a special bond and connection since the first time we met at College. Later on, after both of us went through unsuccessful relationships, we felt that we both were made for each other and got married. We were really happy together and people always said that we were the best couple in town. We were so in love and always together. I wanted so much to have a kid after few years of marriage, but it never happened. We’ve seen so many doctors and while they all confirmed that we both were in perfect health, it never happened. I lost hope and pacified myself that maybe it was not destined for us to be parents. I said to myself that no matter what, I have my husband to share my life with. I needed no one else. But, that as well did not last long. My husband, who was always so serious about his health, went through a minor surgery to remove a benign tumor in his ankle. Little did we know that this would be fatal to his life. He was given 3 weeks of bed rest and I stayed with him few days at home and then resumed work. He was fine, though had pain in his leg and was always in good mood, joking around with everyone as usual. I also noticed that while being at home, he turned into a little kid, sending me love messages at work, waiting for me impatiently to get back home, gave me those loving looks when I was back home, holding my hand while sleeping at night. Then on the eve of his appointment with the doctor for removal of his plaster, I woke up in a bizarrely very good mood (something which I never experienced before), prepared his breakfast and lunch, bid him goodbye and went for work. Little did I know that this would be the last time I would see him. On that day, I spoke to him several times over the phone, he sent me a selfie taken from his mobile, waiting for me to get back home. His last words to me was to say how much he loved me and waiting for me to come home early that day. But when I got back home, he was already gone. I saw his parent crying, waking him up, but he would not. I cried from deep within, asking God why he gave me such suffering. Why he took him away so young. We were in our early 30s, and had whole life in front of us, then God, why now did you take the person I loved and needed the most in my life. The autopsy report revealed that he had blood clots which blocked his heart. But this was only a minor surgery and he gave us no hint that he was unwell. How could he just walk away like this when no one was at home. He would have at least call us if he was unwell. I really find no answers to my questions but I miss him sooo much. I feel that maybe deep inside he knew that he was going and probably knew that life after death is much more beautiful. Maybe this was the reason why deep inside, I was also feeling happy that day when I woke up. I just wish to re-unite with him one day. I just wanted to share this, because I do not think anyone has answers to my questions.

    • Hi Vanessa. I’m so sad to read your story 😦 It’s true that no one who is on this side of the veil is going to know for sure the reason why your husband seemed to leave 3D Earth this soon. But on the other side, we do know. It all makes perfect sense there. In this article I’ve included some ideas as to why people die young. And looking from our perspectives we can only guess. But once we, ourselves, pass away from this realm into the next, then everything will be made clear. Cyber hugs to you ❀

  24. i have had a few drownings as a young teen which is very difficult talking about i only remember falling in the water darkness and then bubbles as i was popping up above the water i don’t really understand if that is a ND experience

  25. I dont usually talk about myself its not a easy topic i passed away 3 times as a infant i had water on the brain (HYDROCEPHLUS) I don’t really remember anything about passing away i only know that the doctor said i was special

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